The San Francisco 49ers

I was born a Niners fan.  My family of athletes doesn't believe in raising their children to make their own sports loyalty decisions.  We tell you who to support when you come out of the womb and you get on board or you find a new family.  It's been done this way since cavemen and I plan to force the same loyalties on my children.

To me, the San Francisco 49ers have meant loyalty, tradition and excellence above all.  They stand for winning, sportsmanship, teamwork and class.  I grew up in awe of Steve Young, Joe Montana, Jerry Rice, Dwight Clark - legends in their field.  Whether we won a ring or not - I was proud to wear red and gold. 

In recent years, the organization has lost its way.  Now before you claim I am merely bitter because we are 1-12, understand that you're wrong.  There's a reason we can't keep a coach, players, or even staff.  There's a reason the Niners were named the worst organization in sports.  And there's a reason that our past coaches and players thrive on other teams and within other organizations.

When it's not coaching and its not your players - it's ownership.  Success starts at the top.  It takes a good leader to make the right decisions and put the right people into the puzzle to make it all fit.  And right now - we have a really poor leader.  Don't believe me?  Let's talk. 

Jim Harbaugh - he was 43-19-1 with the 49ers.  He was a leader in the locker room - certainly overly passionate but he knew what he was doing.  He's considered one of the most successful coaches in franchise history.  Since Jim Harbaugh left we have won I believe 6 of the last 28 games.  Jim is now at Michigan - a team ranked consistently top 10 since he took over.

Patrick Willis.  Patrick Willis spent his entire 8 year career as a 49er as one of the best to play the game.  7x Pro bowl, NFL defensive rookie of the year, 5x first team all pro - and the list goes on.  He retired from the game rather than stay with the organization.  Certainly we can talk about his injuries and his heart wasn't in it - but I still place some of the blame on the Niners for not making it a place he loved being anymore.  **To be fair - I am in love with Patrick Willis so basically nothing he does is wrong in my eyes. 

Do we even go into our draft picks of late?  I'm no expert but what in the hell is Trent Baalke thinking when he goes into a draft?  Is he throwing darts?  Drawing cards?  GUESSING?  I honestly want to know what happens in that war room.  And I want to know if the rest of the ops team is in support or just as confused as us fans are?  All I know for sure is since 2011 when Baalke became the permanent GM - I've not been impressed.  And that 2011 season that the experts credit to his turnaround?  I credit that to a Jim Harbaugh coaching regime.  Because ok - Aldon Smith was great for a hot minute and so was Kapernick - but can we please look at how both of those draft picks have ended up?  Aldon Smith is a nightmare and does not represent what a 49er player stands for (fitting he's a Raider now) and Kap quite honestly can't hang when the pressure is on and he needs to learn to focus on football during the season instead of his poorly misguided political views (don't vote, don't talk).  Sure he had some brief success but when the rest of the league caught on to his style of play, he began to falter.  He has brief moments of stardom, but again, at the end of the day - you can't rely on Kapernick to get the job done.

From a business standpoint - because sports are a business - Jed York is doing a pretty good job.  He built a stadium that caters to the tech billionaires and draws big shows.  Whether people come to the game or not - he collects on the season tickets and sponsorships.  The concerts, shows, and corporate events are booking up the off season because he built himself an expensive fancy stadium (although close look, it's got some tech and layout issues but I digress).  At the end of the day - the 49ers probably aren't hurting for money.  And realistically, that's probably part of the reason Jed is willing to take risks with the football end of the business.  If you're still going to be rich AF whether you win or lose, might as well take a few liberties with your decisions.  Sports teams are often hobbies to rich owners, not their livelihood.

So now here we are - it's 2016.  We've had two more head coaches (I'm thinking we get a third for the next season), numerous off the field player incidents, and we are 1-12.  I can't name half the players on our team and there's no hope of a comeback in the foreseeable future.

It's a start with getting rid of Trent Baalke but then I want to see the York's go (far less likely but I want to believe the latest rumors).  I want to see big changes and to restore what this organization used to stand for.  No more losing, no more behavioral issues, no more focusing on taking the team out of San Francisco.  This is an organization that's 70 years old.  And for a good 60+ of those years being a Niner fan came with immense pride in what that logo stood for.  Sports are supposed to be fun and to encourage loyalty.  Right now - the only thing this franchise brings to the table is a fancy stadium for the Silicon Valley rich kids.  It's cool you can order a beer with an app, but who's at the game to buy that beer?  NOBODY (see what I did there?).

Jed York, give us our team back.  I will always be a fan, I will always love my Niners.  There's no other team for me.  But I want to feel proud of that loyalty again.  I want to wear my gear and remember the tradition, respect, class and excellence it stands for.  I am forever faithful, make that mean something again.

**If you're not a Niner fan and you say anything bad about my team, you're dead to me and I'll fight you. 

***My version of fighting is to throw glitter in your eye. (Except that time in AZ where me and my cousin almost fought some Cardinals fans, but really, that was the vodka's fault and I'm really sorry I almost got us into World War 3...anywhoo!)

The NFL

The No Fun League.  Never has there been a more true description of the NFL.  Personally, I rarely pay attention to the NFL anymore.  A large reason is probably that my team has gone to shambles due to ineffective ownership - and part of that is because the league has taken a lot of the fun out of the game.  Here's why:

  1. The NFL is inconsistent: Penalties, fines, suspensions, punishments - they highly vary for players and teams.  There are supposedly standards for everything and of course there is a sliding scale for severity - but it seems the more visible the player or the more visible the issue is in the media - the heavier punishment.  Sometimes there isn't a punishment until people speak up and the NFL say oh ok I guess we should do something, people are mad.
  2. The NFL only cares about the NFL: Until fans, players, and the general public start to push back against the league for issue at the forefront (aka profits suffer), the league does nothing.  Take domestic violence; not until very recently has the NFL changed a policy that for years didn't take it seriously.  Concussions; only recently has the NFL invested in and taken concussions seriously.  And that's only because of the prevalence of suicide and neurological issues from past players in the media.
  3. The NFL got rid of Celebrations: Sure, can celebrations be taken too far and become unsportsmanlike?  Yea, maybe.  But in 99% of cases, it's part of the fanfare of the game.  I love TD celebrations and seeing the excitement a big play gives a team.  Maybe I missed something, but this is just stupid.
  4. Quarterbacks get preferential treatment: I'm all for protecting the safety of the QB, he's absolutely vulnerable.  But haven't we gone a little too far?  I miss the glory days where QB's were the baddest players out there because they had to focus on getting the play off and avoiding hits. 
  5. There's probably only about 10 minutes of actual football in a game: Between media timeouts, stopping for penalties, and everything else that goes into putting a game on - there's little actual football anymore.  The momentum just isn't the same these days.  and now, with all the controversy and protests, there's even less football.  I want to hear about the game.  I want to listen to real breakdown of plays. 

Those are my Top 5.  There's about 100 other reasons I'm just not a fan of the NFL right now, but the more I talk about it, the more frustrated I get.  If you know me, you know I'm a football girl.  I've spent a lot of my career in the college football arena and been lucky enough to have some incredible NFL experiences (including some dating of a player or two, but alas, that's for another time).  But this season, I'm not a fan.  I'm taking my talents to college football and committing myself to supporting the passion that represents.  Sure, the NCAA has its own issues but I tend to feel pretty positively about them overall.  Football is truly the best sport out there and I hate to watch Roger Goodell and the NFL ruin it at the elite level.

What do you think?  Are you still a fan?  Talk to me.  It's painful, but together, we can support each other.