This One is for the Homeowners!

I’m a new home owner (YAY!) and it is finally time for me to invest in quality home furnishings. I always said I wouldn’t spend a lot on home decor or furniture until I bought a home. It seemed like such a waste to invest when my things were being dragged to a new home every other year.

I still believe in a mix of new and thrift goods. Certainly I’m not about to buy a used mattress, but things like dressers and side tables can easily be found and mixed with some DIY to make a fresh an unique piece.

So where am I shopping? Let’s see the list!

West Elm

West Elm is classic. I love the quality and the customer service. Of course there are some pieces I find overpriced but if you pay attention, they have some amazing sales. Everything also either comes assembled or they’ll do it for you in home. For me, that’s a huge win. I also had them deliver a wrong bed to me and they fixed the issue immediately. I’ve invested in a bed, rugs, a dining table, coffee table, and side table from here and they’ve been worth it for these staples.

Interior Define

I came across this gem from a random Google search. They were having a pop up in my area so I stopped by. I love the quality and the fact that you can customize so many elements of the furniture you buy. I bought a custom sofa in a super durable pet friendly fabric that is a bit mid century modern and fits my aesthetic. With all my customization and a discount, it was under $2500. Couches are expensive so this felt like a deal. I’m also going to buy an over sized accent chair from ID.

Real Rooms

This was another Google find! I needed new dining table chairs and kept finding ones I liked but for around $300 each. As someone who barely uses her dining table. I wasn’t willing to spend that much on chairs. I took a chance and ordered some gorgeous cognac faux leather (you guessed it, mid century modern) chairs. They’re SO well made, SO comfortable and I only paid about $200 for four!

Crate and Barrel

A classic for sure! I have found super simple and reasonably priced (on sale!) small decor items as well as cups/plates/silverware. I like staple pieces to be super classic and neutral. I spice up my decor with the cheaper accent items that are easily replaced when I’m wanting a change. Crate and Barrel is amazing quality and has your everyday classic clean line items.

Amazon

I know, I hate giving Amazon money too, so I try my hardest to not spend too much here, but look, we all do it. I’ve found a ton of great storage solutions on Amazon. As much as I’d like to buy it all at The Container Store, I am not a billionaire. Amazon has some incredible quality organizational pieces for pantry, bathroom and even closet. Often for 1/3 or even 1/2 of the price of pieces at The Container Store.

Local Thrift Stores

I bought a solid oak night stand for $30 at my local Goodwill. For another $15 I bought wood stain and drawer pulls and I’ve got a gorgeous mid century modern night stand for under $50. There’s a similar one I had been eyeing at West Elm for over $200. Thrifting is not for the faint of heart. You have to be willing to invest time and energy to keep looking until you snag a unicorn. But, the amount of money saved and the ability to customize to exactly what you want is well worth it in my opinion.

Consignment Stores

Consignment stores are like a little upgrade to thrift stores. The pieces are more gently used or sometimes even new! Things are more expensive than thrift stores but there’s a much larger and better selection. Really great place to find rugs and couches super gently used if you really can’t swing for full price new.

Use what you have!

I actually utilize my own pictures that I’ve taken on trips and frame them (pro tip: there are some awesome gently used frames at thrift stores!) as my decor. I love that I get to see the trips that bring me joy and it’s a really inexpensive way to decorate. Plus, most of my furniture is neutral so my photos add much needed pops of color. I also have some really incredible family heirlooms, like my grandma’s vanity that I’m re-purposing into a bar cart. I love pieces that have a story and meaning to me, makes my home feel more special.

Where are you shopping for your home decor? Share!

Sparkle Season

I fucking love Christmas. I love the whole holiday season. The glitz the glam the cozy vibes. I am Hallmark’s target audience and I have no shame in my holiday game. One of my favorite parts of the whole thing is the decor. The shiny things, the lights, it’s all magic and brings a smile to my face.

To me, the holidays mean celebration. It’s a time to celebrate the year leading up to this time and the people who have made it what it is.

In 2020, it can feel hard to celebrate. There has been devastating loss of life and complete destruction. Our country has been pulled by hate, corruption and complete letdown by the government that is supposed to protect us.

I sit here from a place of complete privlege. I am healthy. My family has stayed relatively healthy (multiple family members have beat covid). I have a job, a really good one. While I have faced great mental health challenges, I have also thrived. I am luckier than a lot of people right now. For that I am grateful.

I have been lucky enough to give back. For that I am grateful.

I have a comfortable, safe home to stay home in. For that I am grateful.

There is food on my table, clothes on my back, and money in my bank account. For that I am grateful.

2020 has not been the year I wanted. I’ve missed out on trips, time with loved ones, and it has been isolating at times. But I cannot help but feel grateful.

By no means do I want to belittle any struggles of anyone, myself included. Yet it a year of complete devastation for so many, I am grateful.

I have had the time and resources to get involved in the fight for social justice. I text banked during the election. I gave to shelters and food banks.

2020 has been a year that has humbled me. It has allowed me perspective and focuse on the people and the things that truly matter. It has built an exorbant amount of empathy in my heart for the people that were not born with my privielge.

The Holiday Season for me in 2020 is a gift. It’s the sparkles and the sequins but it’s the gratitude for me. I may not feel the usual celebratory glow that I used to this time of year, but I feel so much gratitude.

2020 changes so many of us. I hope those changes last us a lifetime.