I cannot count how many times I've heard a woman say this and follow it with something wrong with herself. It's bigger boobs, skinnier, different hair, better clothes - its a million different things that women are bred to believe they need in order to attract men. I've said it myself when I was younger - I needed to be more something or less something in order to find a man. And while I'm well aware this is not isolated to women - a lot of women have felt this doubt.
The truth is - boys probably would like you more if you were a little more X and a little less Y. But MEN - men will love you for the unique qualities that make you who you are. And as a grown woman in the world - YOU need to take responsibility for loving you as you are, and expecting this.
I think it's true of anyone - male or female - that society puts a lot of pressure on us to be a lot of things. I hear many of my peers still questioning who they are and why they're not a magnet for the opposite sex. And that makes me really sad and quite frankly bored.
Confidence in who you are and what you bring to the table is not easy. But I can promise you - the reason that you are single is not because you are too fat, too thin, too loud, too whatever - you're single because you have no idea who you are or how to love you for all that means.
If you do not love you, nobody else can love you. #Science