Social Media Savvy

Social media is the new wave of connectivity.  Billions of dollars are spent on research determining the best days, times, and platforms for engaging with business and consumers.  For most of us building brands for our small businesses, this strategy looks a little bit different. But if you ever hope to have a successful brand, you better have a very well thought out strategy to get you there.  I'm no expert, and I'm also no social media star.  My brand is in its very early stages of infancy, which is even more reason to develop my approach strategically.  As someone who consistently does her research, creates a plan, and then evaluates the plan, I like to think I know a little bit about being social media savvy.

So whether you're creating an empire, or simply looking for likes - create a plan for engagement and while this doesn't always ensure your success, it does increase your chances.  

Create your Voice

Who are you?  What is your brand?  What do you want your presence to say?  My blog is authentically my voice.  How I speak on here is eerily similar to how I speak in person.  I knew I wanted to be a brand that speaks to keeping it real to my experiences, values, and personality.  Whenever I write, I keep that voice consistent.  Don't confuse your base by being inconsistent.  If your followers cannot figure out who you are, they're very quickly going to lose interest in trying to find out.

Define your Audience

I get it - you want to appeal to the masses to maximize your following.  Realistically, that's not how it works.  If you don't define who your consumer is, you won't appeal to anyone.  Define what your brand is, define who that brand best relates to, and target your voice to that audience.  For example, my peers (millennials) are who spend the most time engaging with my content.  That includes young professionals and those in their early 30's.  I know that's where my strength lies and that's who I write to.  

Set a Goal

Every single thing you do in life should have a goal.  A very clearly laid out goal.  Stop saying "I want to be famous."  Having "millions of followers" is not a targeted goal.  Create a series of goals based on where you are in the building process and up your goal every time you reach success. I'd like to write a book one day.  To do that, I'd like to create a fan base - a group of people who consistently engage with my content.  In my mind, that looks like a minimum of 10,000 blog subscribers.  Everything I do for my website - I keep these goals in mind.  Of course there are many more layers to my goals, but a girl can't share her master plan with everyone.

Follow Through

I know far too many people who always want to do something.  They're going to start a fashion line, become a photographer, start a consulting firm.  But 98% of those people don't do any of those things.  They're not even mediocre at their day jobs and if you're barely keeping your main hustle, your side hustle doesn't stand a chance.  Treat your side hustle (your dreams) like a real job - because it is.  Dedicate time, hold yourself accountable to that time, and remain organized.  Sure, you could leak a sex tape and maybe be a Kardashian one day - but for 99.9% of us, that's not happening.  You're not getting discovered.  Nobody is waiting to give you a deal.  Everyone is talented, and everyone has an idea.  Not everyone is willing to put the time and effort in.

As short a list as that seems, that's a lot to do.  It's a lot of time, discipline, and making the choice to give up some fun for some good ole fashioned work.  Sure, some people get lucky.  But luck only gets you so far.  Even if you're the 1% who breaks in, I can promise you that without a plan, a brand, and a goal - you'll be just as quickly back to being a nobody before your next IG post.

 

Unplugged

If you're reading this, I'm in Belize!  And I'm spending my time with two of my closest girlfriends adventuring, exploring, and NOT with my electronics.  Save for the brief update, I'm spending much less time than normal on my technologies!

I KNOW!  I'm unplugged!  ME!  But I told you, this is the year of less talk and more DO.  So I'm putting my words into action and I'm taking the trips and spending the time with people I love. 

In an effort to keep this short and sweet - and focus on my relaxation - I'll leave you with this - UNPLUG!

While I'm not big on weeks or months without electronics - I do condone simplifying and unplugging whenever possible.  Maybe you don't need Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr...the list goes on.  Pick one or two.  And ditch the rest!  If you're out with friends, put your phone DOWN.  Be in the moment, soak in the feeling and engage in what's happening.

Technology is amazing - but real life is 1 billion times better.  Real life creates feelings, memories, and if you pay attention - they'll give you more than any Facebook post ever could.

Cheers Sequins!

#SpakleOn

Socially Active

Between Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, snapchat, and about 1,000 other social media venues, people are more connected than they've ever been before.  And at the same time, they're less connected than they'll ever be.  Kids are being raised to be more social media savy than I will ever be and yet they're more socially awkward than one thought possible.  While I'm all for technology and the connections social media can create, I miss phone calls, handwritten cards, face to face interactions, and times when it wasn't possible to get ahold of someone.  We are creating intelligent and advanced individuals - who can't even carry on a conversation with another human being without getting uncomfortable or holding an iPhone in their hand.  

I'm just as guilty of being too tech reliant as the next person, I've had a cell phone since I was 10 and currently own a laptop that turns into a tablet as well as an ipad.  But I've also been taught the power of being able to sit down and connect with someone face to face.  I've been taught to smile at strangers, say hello to people I make eye contact with, and to take a real interest in what people are saying to me, without my cell phone at my fingertips. And you know what people think about that?  They think I'm weird.  I get told it's odd how "friendly" I am.  And that really puts things in perspective in my eyes.  We've gotten to a place where it's ok to send nudes, but you can't wave at someone you walk by on the streets?  Should I tweet my twat out instead of having a conversation with my friend about life?  Is that more customary?  Because it's sure as hell more common.  

I've worked with kids a lot in my career, kids ages 18-23.  It constantly surprises me to work with these students (not all are this way of course) who can literally do anything on the computer, cell phone, iPad, you name it, but when I ask them to make a phone call or interact with a client, they're at a loss for words. They're straight A students, part of this club or President of that society, but they absolutely struggle when it comes to being able to sit down, relate to and spark up a conversation with a stranger.  And that scares me.   It scares me to be looking towards a future where everyone relies on technology instead of face to face interactions.  Do you know how many misunderstandings happen a day over social media?  And about 99% of those would never happen if people just talked to each other.  

I love my Iphone, my iPad, my laptop, and my social media circles, but my point is, I value my skills with conversation more.  I value talking to my Mom every morning before work, and the post cards my Grandma sends me to check in.  I love the Sundays I spend sitting on my ass watching football with my friends and yelling at the tv.  And I live for the family BBQ's spent playing dominos and laughing with each other.  I hope that one day when I have kids, I'm able to teach them to be both tech savy and people savy.  I want them to be able to have the confidence to speak to anyone they may meet without being incredibly awkward and yet still know how to enjoy whatever social media may be the latest when they're out there in the world.  I want there to be requirements for jobs where people have to be socially intelligent as well as social media savy.  I want to exist in a place where folks take the time to say hello and SMILE instead of looking at their phones all the time.  And I want that to be the norm.  See it as a challenge, get out there, and be a better person, be someone who is weird for being friendly.  And enjoy the stories of strangers.  They're better and more real than anything you'll ever read on the internet.  Most importantly, take the time to get to know the most important people in your life, because while you're texting, tweeting, and FB messaging them, you're missing out on time you could be spending WITH them.  And in the end, it's not about how make likes you got, who thinks you look hot on Instagram, or who is following you on Twitter, when you're at the very end of it all, it's those people who will be by your side.