Travel is a Drug.

Whether I'm traveling for work or for play - I feel alive once I step off that airplane into a new city.  I could be in Kansas City or Belize City, I love the feeling of the unknown and the unfamiliar.  Travel gives me an opportunity to learn, explore, and grow - and each and every time - I get all the feels.

I've been all over this great country of ours.  From Sacramento to NYC to Milwaukee, Nashville, Laramie, and everywhere in between.  I love learning about the culture and community that makes America such a diverse nation.  I eat local, I drink local, I hike local - I live local. 

And recently - I've gotten back to taking my travel high global.  I've spent time all over Mexico, the Caribbean, and South America.  But shockingly - I've never been anywhere else!  Not Europe, not Asia, not Africa!  And it's about time that changes. 

America is amazing - I love America so very much - but I need to learn to be a citizen of the world.  And as someone who values the differences each culture provides this giant melting pot - I can't wait to grow my knowledge of the people around me.

Traveling gives me a high nothing else provides.  I get butterflies when I'm about to go somewhere I've never been before.  I am humbled by the people I meet, the food I taste, the museums I explore.  And as long as I live, the greatest gift I'll ever give myself, is the ability to travel.

Next up? Europe.  I've got a really good feeling it's going to become my next addiction...

#SparkleOn

Unplugged

If you're reading this, I'm in Belize!  And I'm spending my time with two of my closest girlfriends adventuring, exploring, and NOT with my electronics.  Save for the brief update, I'm spending much less time than normal on my technologies!

I KNOW!  I'm unplugged!  ME!  But I told you, this is the year of less talk and more DO.  So I'm putting my words into action and I'm taking the trips and spending the time with people I love. 

In an effort to keep this short and sweet - and focus on my relaxation - I'll leave you with this - UNPLUG!

While I'm not big on weeks or months without electronics - I do condone simplifying and unplugging whenever possible.  Maybe you don't need Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr...the list goes on.  Pick one or two.  And ditch the rest!  If you're out with friends, put your phone DOWN.  Be in the moment, soak in the feeling and engage in what's happening.

Technology is amazing - but real life is 1 billion times better.  Real life creates feelings, memories, and if you pay attention - they'll give you more than any Facebook post ever could.

Cheers Sequins!

#SpakleOn

Locally Sourced

As I get older, and more or less wiser (mostly less) - I'm finding it more important to me to spend my money traveling.  Shoes and handbags are great - but the rush I get from being able to explore new places is irreplaceable.  And the more I travel, the more I learn the best way to spend my time and money on these trips.  

I'll preface this with: my type of travel is the kind of adventure that allows me to immerse myself in the local culture.  I believe that wherever I go, I'm a guest.  And as such, its my responsibility to do as the locals do.  Not only does that afford me the most authentic experience, it makes me a better visitor to that world.  I highly advise when you travel, you adopt the same viewpoint so that we can do our best to both respect and preserve the customs and traditions of the world around us.

Going local is easy.  It requires a bit more research and planning, but it's worth it for the end result.  And don't just think local for out of country travel.  These strategies apply to places right in your own backyard.  In fact - I highly recommend going local in your own country so that you can be a better local for the rest of the world who comes to see you!

Stay local

Check out local places to stay.  Choose a local inn, BnB, or utilize Air BnB.  Not only does this help the local economy but it affords you a great starting point for going local.  The people running these places are either locals or ex pats and can give you tips and tricks as far as where to eat, explore, how to travel, where is safe, where you should avoid, and so much more.  Hotels are of course easier to book, provide more of our usual comforts, and of course are the go to - but they're not setting you up for local success.  Stay local and build a relationship with the people at that property.  When you do that - you're starting the trip off 10 steps ahead of the folks that choose big chain hotels.  

Travel local

Check out local transportation.  Again, a great place to find out what's affordable and safe is by asking the locals at the property you're staying with.  For example, the subway in NYC (which is so confusing to me) is the best way to travel cheaply and effectively.  When I go to Belize next month, the easiest way to travel between islands are the water ferries.  Don't just rely on cabs and car services.  When you can walk, take public transportation or ride share, DO IT.  Listen to conversations, notice where people go, talk to people and find out what true locals do.

Eat Local

Eating is the best part of traveling.  Don't you dare visit a chain restaurant.  Ever.  Not once.  Continue the pattern of talking to locals and find out where they eat.  Go there.  Whatever that city/country is famous for making, find the best spot for it and eat there.  Food is the heart of a culture.  It's where families and friend share the most important moments of their lives.  It's almost a ritual thing.  Do your best research here and truly make it an experience.  

Experience Local

Go to the local bar.  Attend a local show.  Head out to a local ball game.  Hike the local trail.  Don't spend your time at amusement parks or movie theaters.  Don't go somewhere for the Instagram photo.  Go somewhere for the history, the culture - find out what the locals do.  Certainly don't miss Machu Pichu or the Statue of Liberty but maybe don't hit up Six Flags or stand in line for 4 hours for a donut.  Have a picnic at Washington Park in Denver.  Eat at Le Sel in Nashville. Stay with ex pats in a hut in Belize.  

 

Traveling local means immersing yourself into the culture of whatever city/country you're visiting.  Be open to whatever that means.  Try the food, hike the mountain, have beers with the locals.  Go in with the mindset to learn, explore, and be a guest.  Think of traveling local as being a student of the world.  And being a representative of wherever you come from.  That means being respectful, open minded, and above all - leaving the space better than when you arrived.

Happy travels my local Sequins!  

 

None of the Things

I often speak in absolutes.  I want all of the foods.  I need all of the things.  But recently I've started realizing - I could probably do with less of the things - maybe just have some of the things and focus more on the experiences.

I've always had lots of things.  Clothes, shoes, technologies, accessories, home goods - I'm telling you - all of the things.  And the more I move - the more I discover new things I didn't know I had.  Clothes with the tags still on them that I purchased 3 years ago.  Shoes new in boxes that I bought a year ago.  A fancy running watch I wore probably a handful of times and then exchanged for the latest greatest Fitbit.  You get the point.  I own all the things and I'm basically a hoarder. 

So I started trying something new.  Every time I move I make a conscious effort to get real with myself about the things I own.  If I haven't worn something in 2 years, it goes in the donate pile.  When I moved from Arizona back to California - I donated 8 trash bags - yes those would be full size trash bags - of clothing.  I was also able to sell 2 full bags and make a profit of $300.  But being able to easily give away 8 big bags of my clothes - mind you this was the first time I cleansed so I was truly only getting rid of things I could easily part with - and I was still able to fill 8 bags.  The second time I cleansed - I was able to donate 3 more bags.  Realizing the amount of stuff I owned that was of no importance opened my eyes to how much money I was wasting on things.  Things that could instead be experiences.

I always talk about my bucket list.  And a lot of my bucket list items are expensive.  They're exotic trips, tickets to the biggest events in sports, meals at some hard to get into restaurants.  And I started to think - are the things I own worth giving up the bucket list experiences?  For me - they're not.  I don't need a new outfit more than I need a plane ticket to Maui.  I won't get more happiness from an expensive haircut than I will from going to the National Championship football game.  I'll absolutely enjoy drinking wine in Italy more than that expensive kitchen table I've been eyeing. 

Mind you I've also never had time for experiences before.  A lot of my bucket list items were checked off because of work trips and work experiences.  But now that I've made a commitment to a work life balance - I've got all this time to do things and not a lot of extra cash to make it happen.

So I changed my focus.  I'm a conscious buyer now.  When I'm shopping, when I'm out with friends, basically when I'm doing anything I'm asking myself is this a need or a want?  If I don't spend $50 on this - can I put it towards my next experience?  And while I'm not ready to book my South African Safari, I am closer than I was six months ago.  And if I continue on this path - I'll be able to continue checking off bucket list items.  And for me - those experiences are what make my life feel so full.  It's not the shoes and clothes and fancy kitchen items I'll remember - it's the feelings I'll get from being able to adventure.  It's the relationships I'll build on unforgettable trips.  And it's witnessing sports history, laying down on the field at Alabama - and it's getting uncomfortable and growing doing things I never thought I could.  Keep all the things - I want all the experiences.