Summer Adventures 2022

After three years, I finally made it back to Europe! This trip was two weeks and started in Croatia, led to Paris, and ended in the Champagne region of France! It was absolutely incredible to get back to Europe and experience new cultures.

We also left the day Roe was overturned, so it was honestly a really emotional time and I was happy (and privileged) to leave the country. The state of America also came up quite a bit while we were abroad and I tried my best to answer questions thoughtfully as well as listen to the concerns of others about the United States. What does this have to do with travel tips? EVERYTHING. Travel is a privilege. Experiencing other cultures, meeting people who live life so differently than I do is WHY I do this. The more you can travel and experience other cultures, the more empathy and compassion you have for others. I am beyond lucky to get to do this. It matters to me to come back better for it (and to be a good human while I’m there). You are a GUEST, act like it.

Let’s talk some brief general travel tips!

Planning

I’m a planner for work and by nature. If I’m spending the money and time to fly across the world, I’m doing it right. We usually start planning about 6 months in advance. This allows us a better chance at finding reasonable flights, places to stay and get reservations at the restaurants we want to go to. Especially in a post Covid world (LOL, post covid…right!) where gas is expensive, everyone is traveling and others are planning up to a year in advance, having your shit together matters. Sure, you can wing it, but I know the things I want to see and do and I’m not willing to miss them, so I don’t take that chance.

Flights

  • Fly the airlines you have status with if you can. It might be a tad more expensive, but it’s worth it in the long run

  • Skyscanner is a great resource if you’re flexible and able to do some research

  • The Points Guy gives awesome tips/tricks/reviews for flying abroad

  • If you only have enough money to upgrade one way, upgrade your flight home. That’s when you’re more likely to be exhausted and ready to get home in comfort.

  • If you can’t afford to upgrade from economy at all, find the rows that don’t have anyone in front of you and snag the aisle seat (this is why you book in advance, get the best seats!)

  • Fly in the morning if you can, morning flights are less likely to be canceled and usually on time. Before 10AM is morning

Accommodations

  • I don’t stay in Air Bnb’s in the US, they’re usually where all the issues you’re seeing in the news occur

  • Air BnB’s abroad are fine but I look for folks with 4.8 stars or more and are super hosts or I don’t consider it. Read the reviews!

  • I'‘m a Marriott rewards member who saves their points. We were able to stay 3 nights free at a stunning resort in Dubrovnik (ocean view balcony room!) because of that. Use. Your. Points.

  • Stay places that provide you walk able access to the city you’re staying in.

Restaurants

  • Now that restaurants are open again, they book fast! Make reservations for every dinner. We even made some breakfast reservations and I’m glad we did

  • Do your research. Ask friends, check TripAdvisor, browse the blogger sites. The best restaurants book fast. And I’m not just talking the high end ones.

  • Be specific in your reservation. Ask for a table outdoors, with a view and then tip well when you get it

Activities

  • I love tours. I love boat tours, tours to National Parks, wine tours, all the things! Book them early and be strategic. Leave time between tour days for wandering the city or lounging on the beach

  • TripAdvisor has awesome tours with reviews and you know you’re booking with a reliable company

  • Read the reviews! Make sure they talk about locals running these tours so you’re getting really awesome info and the best experience possible

  • Bring cash to tip. I cannot emphasize this enough. Do not be the jerk who doesn’t tip!

Summer 2022 Trip Details

Croatia

Some basics:

  • Croatia is SO inexpensive. It will be on the Euro soon though so that won’t last long!

  • Dubrovnik was by far my favorite city. It felt more idyllic, clean and historic! Split felt really dirty, crowded, and touristy

Dubrovnik

Where we Stayed: Sheraton Dubrovnik (used points, we had a Twin sea view)

  • This property was 15 minutes by car from town, so it wasn’t walk able but it was less touristy, stunning and we were able to walk around some smaller villages that were clearly local. It was absolutely perfect to be able to easily access other areas of the city quickly and then retreat back to our quiet resort after

  • Splurge for the sea view, it’s stunning

  • The spa is WAY less expensive than in the US. I paid $90 for an hour and a half massage and it was easily the best massage of my life

Where we ate: Restaurant Marinero, Panorama Restaurant, Orsan at the Yacht Club, Konoba Bocana

  • Everywhere we ate was incredible. Not a bad meal.

  • Panorama has the best views ever, take the cable car and go for brunch EARLY. Get the first reservation you can and go enjoy coffee and a meal for hours

What we did: Pool day, spa day, Old Town exploring day! We tried to rent a small boat for the day by the hotel but didn’t reserve in advance so we lost out!

Split

Where we Stayed: This Air BnB. Highly recommend! It was walking distance to everything but wasn’t IN old town where it’s loud. HUGE size and the host was wonderful.

  • Don’t stay in the city center, it’s more expensive and super loud/chaotic

  • Everything is walk-able from where we stayed

  • If you’re there in later summer, ensure your place has AC or it’s unbearable!

Where we ate: Dvor (Michelin Star), Portofino, Bajamonti, Ma Toni, Kat’s Kitchen, Ciri Biri Bella (also a hostel if that’s your vibe!)

  • The best and cutest breakfast place was Ciri Biri Bella (we ate there twice!)

  • Dvor was amazing, great views, amazing staff but they were out of quite a few menu items when we went, so the experience wasn’t as good as it could have been

  • Portofino is the cutest little spot in between two buildings and was SUCH a romantic little setting

What we did: Plitvice Lake Tour, Speedboat Tour, Gooster Beach Club

  • Full transparency, if we didn’t have such fun excursions planned, we would have left Split early. It was not an interesting city for us at all

  • Plitvices has been on my bucket lit forever so I was beyond happy we did this. it is a LONG day so if it’s not on your bucket list and you don’t like walking or nature, it’s not for you!

  • The boat tour was hands down the most fun we had the entire trip. The guides we had were incredibly fun and knowledgeable and the islands were stunning. Bring water shoes, the beaches are all SO painfully rocky

  • Gooster is outside of town at Le Meridian and is not a party spot at all. It’s more for relaxing, lounging and getting sun. It was exactly what we wanted and super inexpensive to reserve beds with towels ($40 for the day)

France

Some Basics:

  • France is notoriously expensive

  • Paris is busy and restaurants require reservations because they’re so small!

Paris

This wasn’t my first time in Paris and we were there for such a short time, we did a TON of walking! We also met up with friends for drinks. Paris in July is beyond crowded. It didn’t interfere with the experience for us, but if you’re crowd adverse, it’s not a good time for you to go!

Where we stayed: This Air Bnb. I cannot recommend it enough. The location is PRIME in the middle of restaurants and shops and easy access to the rest of the city. It is also hidden so it’s quiet inside. The actual apartment is HUGE by Paris standards and extremely comfortable. No AC but the place stayed beyond comfortable and cool and the shower was enormous (which we know is rare in Paris!).

Note: It’s located on a street with sex shops so if you’re conservative, IDK, that might bother you. Please keep in mind, sex in Paris is not taboo or like how we treat it in the US. It was an awesome location and the hosts were AMAZING.

Where we ate: Pink Mamma, Seine Dinner Cruise, HollyBelly

  • Pink Mamma is a big “Instagram” spot. It’s the spot to go for cute photos and the line was out the door the entire time we were there. The food was DIVINE (drinks too!) but the service was atrocious. Truly nothing special and I don’t recommend it. There’s plenty of other places to have a better experience in Paris

  • HollyBelly is so cute and has the most delicious food! I would definitely go again

What we did: Seine Dinner Cruise, Walked 18 miles around the city!

  • The Seine dinner cruise might sound touristy, but locals actually recommend it too. It’s a great way to hit the hot spots from a different viewpoint. There was also a live singer, great food, and decent wine! Highly recommend it!

  • When I say we walked the whole city, I mean it! We got in 18 miles because it was our only real day in the city. It was fun to explore shops and see the sights, but definitely prefer to have time to explore more leisurely.

  • I recommend going to Luxembourg Gardens with some bread and wine and a book and people watching if you have half a day to do so

The Champagne Region

This was my second time doing a French wine region and did not disappoint. We stayed in Reim (pronounced Ranse), which is the largest city in the region. It has all of the gorgeous French architecture but is small, clean and very idyllic. It’s super easy to navigate and easy to access if you chose to just take the high speed train from Paris for the day.

Where we stayed: This perfect Air BnB. This location was perfection. Literally across from the train station and just a short walk to downtown. Between the train station and this building is also a gorgeous park we hung out in during the day. The host was the sweetest and most accommodating woman and the actual apartment was so cute!

Where we ate: Le Jardin (Michelin Star)

  • We stayed here only two nights and tbh, the other two places we ate were just ok so I haven’t listed them

  • Le Jardin was pure magic. Easily one of my favorite places we are on the trip. Divine food, gorgeous garden setting. Walk around the French Estate that’s also a hotel before dinner!

What we did: This wine tour

  • This was SO much fun! Our guide was a born and bred local who knew his stuff and made the day FUN.

  • You definitely get large tastings but also you learn a lot about how to select good champagne and a lot about the history of the region. Truly a really cool experience.

  • Choose a tour that shows you local smaller champagne houses as well as a big one. I loved the smaller houses a lot more!

Final Thoughts

We really crushed this trip from a planning perspective. Having reservations, planning out activities as well as down time was truly the best way to go. I really enjoyed that we were able to see and do everything we wanted without feeling rushed or exhausted. There’s nothing that I wish I had seen that we missed. And although I said I didn’t like Split, I’m really glad we went because the excursions we went on were a must do!

Next up? Wait and see…I’ve got some things in the works!

European Lady of Leisure

This post is for me.  I'm going to Europe shortly for two weeks with one of my childhood best babes and I want to know where to go, what to see, what to do, what to eat/drink!  

Here's the route:

Paris, Monaco/Monte Carlo, Nice, Naples, Almafi Coast, Capri, Rome

Now let me tell you about my travel style:

  • Low Key: I'm packing a carry on and that's it!  
  • Foodie (And Wino): I love to eat and I love me some good wines.  But I'm a simple gal.  I don't need 5-star dining.  I want to eat and drink local and really prefer the places that have history.
  • Adventurer: I love to be outdoors and adventure.  I want to hike and wine taste, enjoy the beach - everything! 
  • Culture Seeker: I love to learn about the culture and people wherever I go.  I'm not a fancy resort stay on the tour type of girl.  

Alright my sequins, give me your best advice on what to do and not do and what's worth the money versus what's not!

This is my first big adult adventure into Europe so I'm looking forward to the journey and culture it's going to provide.

And may I say, if you ever get the opportunity to travel with your best friend(s) to a new place - take it.  Sure, Cabo and Vegas are lovely, but we are grown now.  Get out and explore the world and learn about places that you know nothing about.  Being cultured is how we learn to appreciate and value each other a whole lot more.  Save your money and spend in on the experiences that shape you.

Travel is a Drug.

Whether I'm traveling for work or for play - I feel alive once I step off that airplane into a new city.  I could be in Kansas City or Belize City, I love the feeling of the unknown and the unfamiliar.  Travel gives me an opportunity to learn, explore, and grow - and each and every time - I get all the feels.

I've been all over this great country of ours.  From Sacramento to NYC to Milwaukee, Nashville, Laramie, and everywhere in between.  I love learning about the culture and community that makes America such a diverse nation.  I eat local, I drink local, I hike local - I live local. 

And recently - I've gotten back to taking my travel high global.  I've spent time all over Mexico, the Caribbean, and South America.  But shockingly - I've never been anywhere else!  Not Europe, not Asia, not Africa!  And it's about time that changes. 

America is amazing - I love America so very much - but I need to learn to be a citizen of the world.  And as someone who values the differences each culture provides this giant melting pot - I can't wait to grow my knowledge of the people around me.

Traveling gives me a high nothing else provides.  I get butterflies when I'm about to go somewhere I've never been before.  I am humbled by the people I meet, the food I taste, the museums I explore.  And as long as I live, the greatest gift I'll ever give myself, is the ability to travel.

Next up? Europe.  I've got a really good feeling it's going to become my next addiction...

#SparkleOn

The Art of War

Business is a battlefield.  It's navigating egos, balancing personalities, and figuring out who you are at work.  It's being social with boundaries.  It's being strong but not an asshole.  It's going above and beyond but not sacrificing your whole life.  Work is war, and in war - there's an art to winning.

It took me a really long time to understand the politics of working in an office.  I'm a loud, straightforward, strong, and opinionated person.  I am loyal, hardworking, and I push the limits.  I don't have an off switch and I often speak before thinking.  I've absolutely crossed the line in the workplace and I've let myself get in some sticky situations professionally. 

Now I'm not saying at the ripe age of 31 I've perfected the Art of War at Work, but I am an established soldier and I've got some insight into how you can avoid mistakes I've made as you navigate this world of adulting. 

The War Starts on Day One

The first day you start work is critical.  Not to put more pressure on you but day one is setting your strategy for who you plan to be at work.  Are you going to be the funny one?  The serious one?  The friend to everyone?  Day one is where your colleagues start to learn about who you are and where you're going to fit into their world.  My advice to you - be you, but be a business casual version of you.  In other words - don't pretend to be super serious if you're super not serious in your normal life.  Find a balance between utilizing your humor but keeping it appropriate (business casual).  If you're an overly trusting oversharing type - tone that shit down - but don't try to be cold and aloof.  Whoever you are - business it up but don't try to change who you are.  That's exhausting and unrealistic and it won't last.

Remember You are Your Own Brand

You are representing your brand at all times.  And the brand you build lasts your entire career.  When you make choices, act, and engage at work - you're not just showing your colleagues who you are - you're also leaving an impression that extends to their network.  And you'd be surprised how far that network extends.  Always remember this.  Remember it at the Christmas party before you take shots.  Remember this before you start sleeping with your colleague.  And remember this before you talk poorly about someone to someone else at work.  Your brand, your reputation is all you have.  Choose to be a brand that others respect and value.  Because while you cannot control who likes you or what others may do - you can control you and you can control your brand message.  You get one shot at what that message is.

Boundary Setting

Boundaries at work are critical.  Boundaries are what keep you in check and help you pause before acting or speaking in a way that crosses the line.  Be careful who you trust.  Be aware of how you engage with those around you.  Be mindful of what you share about your personal life.  A rule of thumb I have is if you wouldn't want your boss knowing about it, if you wouldn't say it to your boss, simply don't share it with anyone else.  It's ok to trust a select few - some of my closest friends are people I've met at work - but be selective.  Take time to get to know these people you spend your time with.  It's truly just not possible that each and every person in your office is trustworthy and your best friend.  Set boundaries and respect the boundaries of others.  It's better to be a bit of a mystery than a completely open book in the workplace.

I'd also like you to keep in mind that work, no matter how casual, no matter the office size, no matter how long you've been there - is a business.  And even the most caring and supportive business - is defined by success.  It's lifeblood is based in that success.  Your company can care about you and value you - but it can also thrive without you - don't make it easy for them to make that decision.

I'll leave you with a few very obvious, yet from my experience, often forgotten rules in The Art of War at Work:

  • Don't be the one who drinks too much at work functions
  • Don't be the one who dates (or sleeps with) the entire office
  • Don't be the one who overshares about everything
  • Don't be the one who acts like a cold closed off robot
  • Don't be the one who cries a lot
  • Don't be the one who has a temper
  • Don't be the one who's always making inappropriate jokes
  • Don't be the one who is always "on"
  • Don't be the one who dresses inappropriately, sloppily, or has hygiene issues

I get that those were all negative things.  But they're unfortunately quite common.  And I cringe at every single one.  At the end of the day - The Art of War at Work is 98% common sense.  And learning how to master it - shouldn't be that hard.  Be mindful of how you engage at work and the precedence you're setting.  If you're excelling at The Art of War - you're most likely creating a better, more positive experience for you and those around you.  And that's worth waiting until you get home for that 3rd drink or to make the really crude joke.  Trust me - I'm a 4 star general in the Art of War at Work and if I can do it, anyone can.